STOP Telling Me What To Do

My guess is if you’ve found your way to this blog, something in your life is not working the way you want it to- perhaps your going through a relationship breakdown, a problem with your health, your family or maybe your whole life is in complete disarray. Maybe- like I once was- you are highly suicidal and can’t find a reason to stay alive OR maybe your just exhausted from the never ending rollercoaster of LIFE. Whatever it is- wherever you are right now let me say to you – I UNDERSTAND HOW HARD THIS IS AND I UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN, I GET THE FEAR, FRUSTRATION & UTTER EXHAUSTION THAT COMES WHEN LIFE KNOCKS YOU DOWN (and keeps knocking you down).

BUT NOW LET ME SAY THIS TO YOU, AND I SAY IT WITH NOTHING BUT LOVE AND COMPASSION FOR YOU- no matter where you are right now, no matter what has happened in your past, what demons you are carrying, what life has handed you, what mistakes you have made- THERE IS A WAY THROUGH.  I know that will be hard to believe-  but I’m asking you to dig deep- even after everything you have been through and survived. I’m asking you to just for a second imagine that you can be okay. Just hold on to a sliver of hope. Grasp onto anything you can to help you believe that you can live the life that you were destined to live. A life full of joy, love, happiness, abundance and alignment. The life that you were always supposed to have- the LIFE that is meant for YOU.

Here’s the thing- it doesn’t matter how much help you get, you can see Psychologists, psychiatrists, counsellors, healers, Medical Specialists, you can go to fancy retreats and meditate all you want, you can read self help books, listen to podcast after podcast and talk about your problems and your life until your blue in the face, you can convince yourself that you are strong and you can keep running from the pain- BUT unless you BELIEVE that you CAN really be OKAY, that there is a better way of living  – then most likely nothing much will ever change. Its easy to believe in all of the things that are wrong with you, its easy to listen to what others tell you, that your damaged and flawed, its easy to think that there is no way out, that you can’t get off the never ending rollercoaster of life. This is about YOU finding YOU because no doubt somewhere along the way you’ve lost sight of who you really are, maybe you can’t even remember the person you once were. Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that this is it- that this is what you’ve been handed, that this is all you deserve.

But there is a better way, and heres the thing -YOU HAVE TO WANT THIS FOR YOU- YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT IS POSSIBLE. THIS IS NOT ABOUT PLEASING ANYONE ELSE OR TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY- THIS IS ABOUT YOU TAKING OWNERSHIP OF YOUR LIFE. THIS IS ABOUT YOU STEPPING INTO AND OWNING YOUR OWN TRUTH, AND PERHAPS FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE DOING WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU.

Just so you know, and I’ve mentioned it before, this IS NOT a how to blog, its not a step by step guide on how to achieve the life of your dreams. And if you are looking to be told exactly what to do then perhaps this may not be the right place for you. What this blog will do is give you the courage and belief that you can live the life you were destined for, simply by beginning to LISTEN TO YOURSELF – YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS WITHIN – YOU HAVE DIVINE GUIDANCE SUPPORTING YOU ALONG THE WAY, LEADING YOU TO THE LIFE YOU DREAM OF, GUIDING YOU TO BECOME THE PERSON YOU WERE DESTINED TO BE. And yes I know its confronting, I know its scary and it makes you feel like you have to run. Its so easy to spend our whole life running, to convince ourselves that we don’t need anything more, that its really not that bad. It takes great courage to stand still and confront yourself. Only you know what the right thing is to do for you. Only you know if it is time.

This blog, my work that I have been called to do is simply about guiding you back to yourself- because that is where the answers lie- this is about healing the relationship with yourself. Its not about self-care or self-love, its about becoming LOVE and letting go of all of the pre-conceived ideas, roles and identities you have spent your life becoming.  Once you become LOVE that is all that you attract, you become a magnet and that is what your energy gravitates towards and it is here that you know you have found your way back to the truth of who you really are. When you are here you know that anything and everything is possible.

I will guide you towards the parts of your life that you need to address, so that you can look at the foundations and building blocks that you will need to use so that you can step into the life that has been awaiting you.  How you CHOOSE to do that is completely up to you- this is about you doing what is right for you- this is about you following your intuition and listening to your internal guidance system- because you are the only one that has the RIGHT ANSWERS FOR YOU. The idea that what worked for me will also work for you is false simply because WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT AND UNIQUE, THERE IS NO ONE SIZE FITS ALL. This is about you coming back to YOU. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO HEAL YOURSELF, MY ONLY ROLE IS TO SHOW YOU THAT IT IS POSSIBLE.

I don’t know about you, but the minute somebody tells me what to do I freeze up, I question myself and I feel like I’m doing life wrong. The times that I have tried to follow somebody else’s guidance or do what society expects of me has done nothing but leave me feeling like a fraud and a failure. I’ve tried to live my life doing what others expected of me, I’ve tried giving so much of myself, and I’ve tried to live my life for others- but it didn’t work. I fell apart because I couldn’t pretend anymore. The only way I am interested in living my life now is in a way that feels real and right for me, and that means my life looks completely different to those around me. I no longer mind what others think of me, I no longer worry about trying to please others, I don’t fit in and I dont belong in a way that others do, but I do fit in and I do belong to myself first and foremost, and that is what matters most to me. Nothing has been more valuable to me than listening to my own inner guidance- it is the only reason I am here living my life as I always knew it could be. Nobody knows me better than I know myself, I have Divine Guidance deep within me and it comes from Source Energy. We all have it, its up to each of us to find it, to connect with it and to LIVE it. When we do that everything makes sense.

I want you to know that you can be okay, you can be better than okay. Lets get started..

I’m so glad you are here. xx

 

 

 

 

Kylie West

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